Sometimes as a homeschool mommy, it's nice to know you aren't the only one experiencing extreme joy or massive doubt. I have been homeschooling my children since 2000 and I still experience both. I have 3 sons and one daughter. With the eldest son living on his own and the second oldest son away at college, I only have two still living at home. Take a peek into our daily lives and feel free to leave comments.
Nothing like a fresh start to coincide with the New Year! So much has happened,
and is happening, that I’m most busy trying to keep things in perspective.
So, you know that
voice in you that speaks so only you can hear? Well, mine keeps telling me that
I’m going to write a book a month for the next 6 months. On the surface,
I’m wondering when I will find the time to do so. Deep inside, I know all
I have to do is stop playing Toon Blast, Dominoes, and Yahtzee on my phone 4
hours a day. To help keep myself focused, I just deleted the apps from my
phone. My anxiety causes me to play those games hours a day, when really, I
would be much happier if I spent that same free time reading a book (thanks to
my new glasses) or working on my business plan. Little do my children
realize that they too will put down the electronics to spend more time working
on themselves. All is well, but there is always room for improvement.
I’m looking at a
move to Indiana since it’s closer to my job in downtown Louisville, and the
cost of living is lower. I’m actually excited about it, because I’ve always
hated saying I live in Kentucky. I’m not sure why other than I just don’t
have a good outlook about the state after living in it for over 8 years and in
3 different “cities”. Danville was a small town, Lexington was a bigger
small town, and I guess you can call Louisville a city. It’s just way
different in Kentucky than it is at home in Ohio or Texas. I don’t know much
about Indiana, but I don’t have any negative preconceived notions just yet. I
do know that homeschooling is super easy in Indiana, as well as getting
certified to practice massage there. I’m very much ready for the move.
Currently, I only
have 2 children left at home. CJ is about to turn 15 and Maya is 11. I
hide how absolutely happy I am that they are no longer going to school.
Maya chose to go to school, because my work schedule didn’t allow me
spend much quality time with them. I made CJ go to school. It
wasn’t really what I wanted, but I do feel like it was better than them sitting
around the house all day like they were. The cool thing is, I have a new job
that allows me to get off of work at 3:30 pm if I get there early enough.
I have enough money to pay for extracurricular activities. That is always
As I mentioned
before, I’m writing this year, so get ready. I’m also going to be reading like
I used to. I noticed today that I have quite the book collection started.
As much as I hate setting Resolutions, I do have a few very important
Write more. Every
time I hear my Inner Voice tell me to write, I will.
Read more. Now that
I have new glasses, I have no excuse.
Join a Bowling
League. It’s just something I’ve always wanted to do.
Keep at least a
whole paycheck in reserve. I refuse to live paycheck to paycheck anymore.
Invest. Even if I
just start with a little, I’m going to start in the month of January.
Get a Passport. How
can I expect to travel without one?
Discover the name
of my Inner Being. It is the one who will be writing my book and giving me the
power to overcome the increased anxiety I have developed more recently.
Devote more family
time to the 2 still at home with me; even if that means taking away their
phones and televisions.
Take the time to
meditate daily. I know how amazing it is and since I won’t be playing games on
my phone in the morning anymore, that will open up so much time for me before
Laugh more, Love
more, Live more!
I have quite a few
big projects I want to happen this year and little do CJ and Maya know, they
are going to be a big part of every single one of them. In my homeschooling
journey, I have used several techniques to educate my children. I don’t even
know what you would call the style I use now. The description that is closest
to what I use is Self-Directed Learning, but with a push. I help them figure
out what they want for their lives and then I give them choices on what they
can do to achieve personal goals.
I learned so much
parenting the older two boys. Initially when I realized the end result
wasn’t exactly how I saw it was going to be (their transition into adulthood),
I reigned very loosely. I let them do and say things I never would have let the
older two do at their ages. The truth is, overall, I still have great boys. I
constantly get compliments on how balanced they are to be raised by a single
mother. Little does anyone know how much the 3 of us have been through
together. The younger 2 was getting an older, much more mature mother, but also
a less-hopeful mother. BUT NO MORE…. I am appreciative of the challenging times
we have experienced over the past 3 years, because it has helped me search for
happiness in the dark and be reminded that true happiness lives within me and
is not based on whether life around me is the way I want it to be. I’m
truly grateful for many things that I discovered during that search.
Feel free to share
what your resolutions are. Maybe we share some and can encourage each other.